What is Female Stimulation?
Stimulation in general is the excitement of a physical or social aspect in an individual. Female stimulation is typically categorized in a few interests: female masturbation, mutual masturbation and (or) foreplay, increasing female sexual desire and (or) increasing female sexual arousal levels.
This information is sought by men and women alike as men believe it or not through research are very interested in ensuring the pleasure of their female partner during or before sexual engagements. Women obviously want to know more about how they work and how to gain more pleasure. Typically women who are researching female stimulation techniques are having issues reaching sexual climax during a sexual encounter or if they are having orgasm they want to achieve their first multiple orgasm.
I Think I have a Low Female Libido?
Haha. We all think the same. Whether it's a lack of orgasms, not enough sexual desire or activity, or not enough to keep up with our husband's libido most women are at some time or another a casualty of low libido. I think it's just a result of our modern day lifestyle but before you visit your doctor or therapist (you should always be maintaining regular health checkups anyway) just to improve your sex life maybe you and your partner can first work on improving female stimulation.
How do I Improve Female Stimulation?
Well, this article was written by a woman for women interested in increasing female libido, improving their sex life, and finding better technique in female stimulation that they can use or they can teach their sex partner to use. From a woman's point of view you are the best person to know what stimulates you. First a few questions though:
- Do you reach orgasm or sexual climax through masturbation?
- Do you reach orgasm or sexual climax through sexual intercourse with your partner?
- Do you find your partner sexual attractive?
- Do you have a healthy sexual desire (think of or engage in an erotic or sensual activity 10+ times a week)?
- Do you become fully sexual aroused when engaging in foreplay or sex (nipples swell, body shows signs of temperature increase, vagina becomes engorged and self lubricates, vaginal hood slightly rises to expose the clitoris)?
- Engage in more romantic, sensual, or erotic activities (Romantic dinners, sex in odd places, fantasy enactments, role playing, etc…)
- Discover your erogenous zones (Nipples, Behind the Ears, Nose, Tummy, Perineum, Anus, Inner Thighs, others) and realize which ones turn you on the most. Have your partner focus on those areas with massaging and (or) kissing during foreplay.
- Find your clitoris (a small pea sized bump at the top of your vagina partially covered by your labia) and while by yourself masturbate trying different techniques of rubbing, tapping, and caressing to discover what is most pleasurable. Communicate this to your partner.
- Look into a female libido enhancer or female sexual enhancer. These products are marketed towards women with female sexual dysfunction but are very useful to us who simply have limited desire due to stress or having an inability to become fully aroused resulting in less sexual climaxes or orgasms.
If you answered no to any of the above 5 questions you or your partner may have some difficulties in finding your optimal female stimulation. Here are a few tips to increase your level of female stimulation: